Developing myself one captured moment at a time.

Dear Younger Elena (18 Years) You are now nearly 24 can you believe it? I can’t. Sometimes I need to think again of the age exactly as it just feels unreal. How life has changed. Things turned out different than what you planned and dreamed of.  You finally got to go overseas. Your first family isn’t what you think it to be what I learn there is don’t rush the process just let it take its course and choose wisely. Extend and travel more!!! Be more open and leave with no regrets and make sure to have contact all the time. Family, they come and go in your life but hold on to the ones that stay around. Enjoy the time given with them and make it count. Not all will make you happy and some will even push you out their lives or be rude but know they are family and let it go and carry on with your life. Friends, they too come and go. Make the friendships last as for some reason they move on and its done. Fight as long as you can for the ...

So being in a relationship has its own things but when you date a guy that is a petrol head full on car guy like mine then you learn a few things so I thought I would share The you know your dating a car guy petrol head when…. Also what I learned whilst Dating my boyfriend  You can bet that the first and last thing on their mind is car, either the whole car or something to do with the car. Its just full on start your engine can’t get out of my mind want all the cars that I can get They won’t easily look at another girl in the parking lot as they are normally checking out for cars and commenting on the cars ass. Their Facebook feed is mostly pictures, videos and groups of cars  You know you are dating a car guy when he says gorgeous and he's not actually you he is talking about you, yes its to the car. How they work the car topic into any conversation even at the most random times. Like you can be talking about food you want to make for dinner...